One thing you probably didn't know about Dharma say's "Life is one long lesson, some hurt more than others."
I can’t listen to Rod Stewart without thinking of her holding his balls ;)
and I can’t listen to Bob Seger without thinking of her also (but she never got close enough to him to hold his – never mind you had to be there)
Just this morning as I did my morning ritual before the kids woke up I was thinking of her and missing her. Wishing I was there to share her upcoming birthday.